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在这个照明系列中,我们将探索六秒钟情绪智力模型的每种可学习能力。现金网赌钱网站这是第四周:导航情绪。
哦,导航情绪。It’s a difficult one for many… for example, when I conductSEI debriefsI often ask, “Do you have questions about one of these competencies in particular?” The answer, almost always? “Can you tell me more about导航情绪?”
本周,我们将潜入 +探索一种实用技术,用于导航这些感觉似乎流连忘返的水域。
照明:感觉卡住了?尝试这种三步技术
Getting stuck in an emotion could be a lot of fun…. can you imagine being stuck in excitement, contentment, or silliness?!
但是,当我们谈论感到“卡住”时,我们通常并不意味着被卡在有趣的东西上!不,通常是诸如挫败感,怨恨,孤独或困扰之类的情绪使我们感到瘫痪和绝望。
导航情绪是通过这些情绪转移并实际利用他们所提供的智慧的过程,以便我们做出最好的决定。
这是导航情绪的简单首字母缩写:兽医。当您感到卡住时,请审查自己的情绪。就是这样:
validate:
命名您的一种情绪。然后,问自己:“我还有什么感觉?”感觉卡住了?搜索在线阅读的情绪列表。
then, validate those emotions you’re feeling by accepting them in whatever way works for you. Feel them in your body. Imagine wrapping them in a hug. Invite them inside your home to have tea. Help them feel welcome for a moment before moving to the next step.
eXplore:
现在有点打开情绪。问问题:想告诉你什么情绪?其他哪些情绪可能会帮助您满足需求/欲望/目的?您的情感中要找到的“智慧”的内核是什么?
transform:
Already, you can likely feel your emotions shifting.Acknowledging emotions has a powerful effect on their strength。利用这种不断变化的能量来决定您的下一个动作步骤:您将如何满足情绪的需求?您将如何有目的地前进?
PS– find a real-life (and heart-warming!) example of how the VET technique helped a student navigate their challenging emotions这里。
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the next time you’re feeling stuck in an emotion,兽医它。
How did it feel to validate your emotions?
您用什么问题来探索?
您计划采取什么行动步骤来改变自己的情绪和经验?
PS- if you’d like to practice Navigating Emotions with some 1-1 support, I am doing my Coaching Certification through Six Seconds, and my cohort and I are offering super-discounted coaching sessions to get all of our practice hours needed for certifications.在这里找到更多!
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嗨,玛丽亚,
Many many thanks to you.
我爱你兽医技术。很有用。继续前进
嗨,玛丽亚,
Many many thanks to you.
我爱你兽医技术。很有用。
thank you for writing this encouraging advice. Very helpful.
嗨,玛丽亚,
我喜欢验证 - 探索 - 变换(兽医)技术!我以前从未听说过。
We have been using a similar 3-step AAA process of: Awareness – Acceptance – Action (or no Action) model, which also works well.
thank you for keeping us informed of new 6 Seconds’ EQ concepts. My best to you.
Matt