我们希望我们的孩子蓬勃发展，感到安全，帮助他人，以确定自己的内心。我们可以做什么？我们可以爱他们。但是，正如下面突出的引用会告诉您的那样，爱不仅仅是一种感觉。这是一个动作。
We hope this month’s Mini POP-UP Box gives you some tools for actively showing the children in your life how much you love them.
- Introduce the different love languages to the child. They are touch, words of affirmation (kind words), quality time, gifts, and acts of service. If you aren’t familiar with these terms, you can do a quick Internet search to brush up on them before introducing to your child.
- Together with the child, explain each love language and come up with an example for each. Then, trace a picture of their hand, and write each love language on each of the five fingers. Then, brainstorm words and pictures that they associate with each, putting them by that love language on the picture.
- 然后，查看您刚刚创建的手图片，询问他们是否有喜欢接收爱的方式。他们画的一根手指会让他们特别被爱吗？
- 当他们确定自己的顶级爱情语言或两种最高的爱情语言时，用胶带固定在背面的纸圈以制作“爱情贴纸”。你们俩都可以在爱情贴纸上绘画和写作，以自豪地分享您的爱语言！或者，如果他们想让它更加私密，他们可以为那种爱语言分配一种颜色，并为它染色。一定要拍照！
You can use this activity as an opportunity to discuss affection, empathy, and sharing love.
您如何更频繁地给别人他们的爱语言？
What love language surprises you most?
如果您有争议，如何使用彼此的爱情语言做出修改？
How can we communicate that we want a different kind of love to people? If we are getting too much or too little of one that we don’t want, what actions steps can we take to change that?
Research from Duke University,which followed 500 infants into their mid-30’s, found that babies with very affectionate and attentive parents were more likely to grow up to be happier, more resilient, and less anxious adults.
Kitchen Table Question:
“我们如何更频繁地互相展示我们彼此相爱的人？”
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