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在这个照明系列中,我们将探索六秒钟情绪智力模型的每种可学习能力。现金网赌钱网站这是第二周:应用结果思维。
Choose what’s most true for you:
当我在情感上触发时,我倾向于:
一种。斗争
b。逃跑
c. freeze
d。暂停,决定,然后采取行动
本周的能力应用相应的思维encourages you to explore what choosing option D feels like. You will think of a current choice you need to make, then use a personal activity to explore how you want yourself and others to be affected by your choice.
照明:如何根据您真正想要的东西做出决定
Applying Consequential Thinking is all about being intentional with your actions. It’s about taking that micro-pause to stop and想想你真正想去的地方在自动驾驶反应之前。
下次您做出选择时,感觉如何真的知道你想发生什么?
我没有打架,逃离或冻结,而是邀请您停下来探索您真正想对某种情况做出回应。您将在下面使用的图表将帮助您根据自己的选择在情感和理性上揭示想要产生的影响。
您将通过问自己两个简单的问题来做到这一点:
What do I want emotionally?
and
我想合理地做什么?
Find a piece of paper and a pen (or markers, crayons, colored pencils) + activate your power to应用相应的思维…
1.想想您想做出的当前决定。If you want help considering one, you might revisit您上周确定的模式。也许这是关于工作的决定,如何应对您关心的人或财务状况。例如,我的选择是在粘性情况下如何表达我的需求。
2.接下来,根据自己的决定,将自己想要的东西列出您想要的东西。Ask yourself: What do I want emotionally for myself and others? What do I want rationally? For example, a few of the emotions I identified for myself are: supported, unafraid, and empowered. A few of the rational outcomes I identified for myself are: express my opinions, take care of myself, and act more quickly. Make a chart for yourself like this one:
3.是时候采取故意行动了。Now that you’ve explored what you want out of your decision, what action sounds the most aligned with your list?
刷新 +更新每个星期一都会在收件箱中照亮!
从决定中阐明您想要的结果感觉如何?
您从这项活动中获得了什么见解?您如何在“此刻”应用这种见解?
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Illuminate is a weekly e-mail series that provides practical tips + galvanizing inspirations for practicing an emotionally intelligent life. In our time together, we’ll operate from the assumption thatyou have all the wisdom you need inside of yourself + that you have a purpose the world needs to see.我们将探索工具 +技术,以阐明您自己内在的智慧和目的。如果您想每周在收件箱中收到免费的善良礼物,请订阅这里。
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嗨,玛丽亚,
情绪智力对与我合作的人非常重要。这些人与患有严重精神疾病的一个或两个父母一起长大。我的大部分工作都是基于我(易于阅读的)研究,题为:“看不见的生活:未经判断的非疾病,有能力的成年子女的患有严重精神疾病的成年子女的创伤”。看:
https://minerva-access.unimelb.edu.au/handle/11343/37852
My website link shows comments from readers of my research. Scroll down for various other pages, such as “Tips”, “Grief & Loss” (includes a Japanese translation), “Tasks”, etc.
I also wrote some brief articles on grief and trauma which can be located here:https://medium.com/@suzette.misrachi(有关我的研究的简短想法,请向下滚动到第一篇名为“未经认可的创伤:成年人与精神病父母成长的成人遗产”的文章)。如果人们在上面的链接上单击“关注”,他们将自动获得这些简短的文章(每年仅出现3倍)。
I really like the ideals and the purpose of your work. Thanks for sharing.
亲切的问候,苏泽特